When most people think about the concept of seduction, the idea that comes to mind immediately is manipulation.
Like, there must be some element of taking advantage of the other person.
A fooling them.
However, in my experience, the most effective thing that you can do to attract another person and make them fall for you is to genuinely get to know them and show that you truly like and respect the person they are inside.
Have you ever had a conversation with someone and come away with the feeling that they saw you deep inside, unfiltered and raw, and that they not only accepted but were delighted by what they saw? Is there any feeling in the world more intoxicating and heady than that one?
In my life, there is been a few memorable and deep conversations with members of the opposite sex where we laid bare all of our insecurities and then fully accepted the other person after what we had seen.
Without exception, those were the conversations that led to the most earth shattering relationships — both physical and emotional — that either one of us had ever experienced.
Therefore, my conclusion? The best seduction technique in the world is simple respect!